Good news for Irregular Choice fans! The fabulously funky Irregular Choice Autumn Winter 2014 Wedding Collection is in store now. We heart Irregular Choice here at Love Sussex Weddings and we know loads of you ladies do too – we’ve lost count of the number of brides we’ve featured who’ve strutted down the aisle in Irregular Choice. And you know this internationally acclaimed brand started in Brighton right? Well where else!? We’re loving Pearly Girly, which ones would you choose?
A Quirky and Creative Brighton Wedding at the Duke of York’s Picturehouse and Proud Cabaret ~ Sam & Tom
Some days when a wedding lands in your inbox, you get a tingle of excitement and just can’t wait to get it live so that you guys can swoon along with us – Hove based Sam and Tom’s quirky big day is definitely one of those weddings, it evokes ideas, inspiration and best of all – our day our way, attitude. We love.
Tying the knot at the Duke of York’s Picturehouse, whilst showing a video they’d made together, this creative couple and their lucky guests then partied the November night away at Brighton’s Proud Cabaret.
Want to see more? We don’t blame you. Here’s beautiful bride Sam to tell us all:
We chose to get married in Sussex because it’s where we met, fell in love and have set up our home.
It was very important to us to let our wedding day represent the type of people we are and what we like doing so the venue choice was easy: we simply chose the places we liked going the most! The rest was done via the internet from sites such as Love Sussex Weddings. I found other people’s weddings really helpful and certainly borrowed ideas from them.
Hen and Stag Do Debauchery
I went to Berlin for my hen do, I had always wanted to go and thought that a weekend away with a small group of close friends would be awesome and it was. If you want history by day and debauchery by night, Berlin is the place for you.
The Stag’s went to Marseille, where a group of eight kayaked and camped along the Huveaune River enroute to a large industrial electronica festival.
Our theme was definitely ‘a little bit of us’, we wanted to mix all the stuff we like into one day. We really didn’t care if things didn’t go together, it was just meant to be a reflection of the everyday with just a hint of something special.
We shot a vast amount of footage throughout the year leading up to the wedding, edited it into a film and played it after the ceremony on the big screen whilst everyone ate popcorn. Besides the vows, it was my favourite part of the day as we managed to capture nearly everyone at the wedding on film and no one knew about it beforehand.
We got married at the pictures, didn’t have a top table and had scantily clad men and women serve the wedding breakfast.
I suppose the biggest non-traditional aspect was the fact that we didn’t tell anyone where we were getting married. The wedding party and most guests stayed at the Hilton on the seafront the night before (and night of) the wedding. We asked them to gather at the hotel at 1pm where we whisked them away on an old bus to the venues. We did, however keep a few things semi traditional like our first dance (outro by M83) and cutting the cake.
We made video invites and sent them out via email. We love making films and it cost no money, it just took us a bit of time to edit, but that was fun and people’s reactions were great. We also did our own seating plans, and the general bits for the tables (in fact my Grandma came down from Suffolk a few days early and helped out which was great). I also made the button holes from feathers, leaves and a Christmas decoration, and my brooch bouquet I made by following various videos on YouTube!
This week we’re bringing you Kent- couple (and Love Sussex Weddings readers) Francesca and Matt’s utterly stunning outdoor Buxted Park wedding, before we go any further we must say, if you’re a fan of princess style dresses, you are going to love Francesca’s beautiful gown – it certainly made us swoon!
Filled with pretty, pink and vintage-inspired details, this dainty big day was all about understated elegance and romance. Enough giddiness from us, here’s Francesca to tell us all: Matt proposed whilst on holiday in Rhodes, I had no idea he was planning it, but one night after dinner whilst having an evening walk along the beach he got down on one knee, opened a box with a perfect diamond ring and asked me to marry him. I burst into tears and of course said yes! It was the perfect setting surrounded by palm trees under the stars. I was so surprised and amazed he had managed to get the perfect ring and ask my dad’s permission, all without me knowing!
We felt Sussex was the perfect location for our wedding due to its beautiful countryside and views. We chose Buxted Park as we felt it was an amazing venue with stunning grounds. We got married on the Coat of Arms Lawn and had our wedding breakfast in the Ballroom.
We both had a good idea of what we wanted for our day and used the internet and Pinterest to get ideas. We also loved Love Sussex Weddings, where we found inspiration for our big day and our amazing florists Pollen. Pollen provided additional decor for the day. We had large LOVE lettering in the background during the service, a vintage style white post box, lanterns and Mr and Mrs white wooden letter on the mantle piece.
Our wedding colours were blush pink and navy blue. My dress was called Peony, it was a mix between ivory and blush, the men wore navy suits and bridesmaids had blush pink dresses.
Matt is a designer so he designed all the invitations, table plan and table names. He also came up with our table names, which were Cockney rhyming slang with a wedding theme, for example the top table was Horse and Carriage aka marriage, this was a fun touch that had guests guessing.
We also created our own sweet table! We purchased bulk sweets online with paper bags to match our colour theme. We then got sweet jars from Ikea and tied blush ribbon in bows around them. Matt designed typography pieces to be displayed which referenced love and sweets and we sprinkled the table with love hearts. It looked amazing and was a fraction of the price.
I walked down the aisle to Pachebels Cannon in D, this is a piece of music we both liked and wanted something traditional to start the ceremony.
Our first dance song was I Luv you by The Ordinary Boys this was a special song to us which was released in 2007, the year we got together. [CLICK TO READ MORE]
Good golly Miss Molly, have we got a perky and preppy vintage treat in store for you this week? Courtesy of quirky couple Emma and Matt from Hove, and the oh-so-fabulous Fitzgerald Photographic, this May wedding takes us back to the rock ‘n roll era with vintage vinyls, retro coke bottles and swoon-worthy tea-length dresses.
Matt proposed whilst on holiday in Dublin, we’d gone out for a nice romantic meal and then for a walk around the city. We walked into Trinity College and under the Campanile where he got down on one knee and proposed…
We both grew up in and around Brighton so wanted to get married by the sea.
We loved the idea of a 50s style wedding as we both enjoy the music and the fashion and thought it would make fun, relaxed day.
We hen’s went to the Grand Hotel for Afternoon Tea and a boozy afternoon at Jamie’s Italian, while the stag’s visited Brighton Pier for the arcades, played Lazer Zone and finished off with a trip to Komedia.
Matt completely surprised me with a beautiful black and chrome Oldsmobile from Bugsy Car Hire. It was amazing, the driver (Graham) was fantastic and came fully decked in a proper vintage style suit, we had so many people stop and admire the car it was just brilliant.
Wow – we’re impressed! We loved the vintage touches you added to your big day. Can you tell us a bit about them?
We used 7” vinyl singles as place settings/favours and glass bottles of coke with a red and white striped paper straw tied to it as favours to keep within the 50’s theme.
Make lots of lists! Make sure you keep on top of the budget, review it at least once a month and above all, don’t panic!
We’re pretty sure that you’re going to fall in love with Heather and Dan’s romantic and rustic outdoor ceremony, with its sunny skies, vintage and homemade touches and one truly amazing Jenny Packham wedding dress. It’s time to put that kettle on and get lost in this week’s wonderful wedding…
Heather and Dan, who live in Billingshurst tied the knot on 26th July this year and held a tear-jerking ceremony (conducted by their best friends) at Dan’s family vineyard, Newnham Park in Crowborough, continuing their celebrations with music from family and friends, into the early hours. But, enough from us, here’s beautiful bride Heather to give us all the goss on her and her new hubby’s lovely wedding day:
After being whisked away to Florence, I couldn’t understand why Dan had a slightly stressed glint in his eye. On our first evening there, we went for a romantic meal and after drinking and eating too much I decided I was tired. Dan suggested we go back to the hotel, relax for a bit and then go for a moonlight stroll along the river.
When we got back to the room, Dan nipped to the bathroom and by the time he was back I was fast asleep! The next day, the stressed glint was back and he was a bit quieter than normal but we went off for a walk around Michelangelo’s Gardens. We settled in a beautiful spot overlooking the hills and on the stroke of 4pm Dan proposed – it was perfect!
It’s not often the hen party out does the stag but mine did. The last picture of the weekend break in the Cotswold’s, was me in A & E. This was the result of me thinking I didn’t need to walk down a flight of stairs, of course I could fly!! That’s when the countdown of the wedding really started – would I be off the crutches by then and get into my heels – having a father walk his daughter down the aisle was never needed quite so much!
Newnham Park is Dan’s uncle’s vineyard. As well as being stunning, the vineyard is of huge sentimental importance to the family, so was the only place we would have wanted to get married at. It is a place where all generations of the family get together, as well as being the resting place of Dan’s Nana and Granddad – whilst they couldn’t be there for our wedding day in person it was the closest we could get to having them there.
Most suppliers where either found online or were recommendations, with the exception of our photographer and our band who are all good friends. Where we could we sourced things locally, like our flowers and food. Pinterest was essential to our planning!
Luckily for us, many of our friends have had beautiful weddings so inspiration came from those. We love music so knew a relaxed festival theme would be perfect with live music being played by our friends and family.
I saw the Sabine dress online, a week after getting engaged in 2012 and fell in love with it. I had never looked at wedding dresses before this but knew I wanted something a bit different. As luck so happens, there was a sample sale in Mayfair later that week so I thought I’d go along but not really expecting to find it – but there it was and it was the first dress I tried on, I knew it was my dress but thought I’d try two more on whilst I was there quickly, as I didn’t want anyone to say I rushed into my decision! Needless to say I bought it there and then which soon became a gift from my Dad after he saw it.
We knew we wanted to get married in front of all our family and friends at Newnham Park but as it wasn’t licenced we knew legally this would not be possible; so we decided the ‘paperwork/ legal ceremony’ would be done in my hometown, Louth, Lincolnshire, two weeks before the wedding. Without saying our vows in front of our family and friends, we didn’t view it as being married, it was merely paperwork (however it did turn out to be a very special day for us with just our close family).
Our friends mean the world to us and as we were legally married we thought why get a stranger to perform the wedding and talk about our relationship? Instead we had two of our closest friends, people that were there from the very start of our relationship nine years ago. We couldn’t ask for anything more perfect then what they did – it was amazing and I would recommend it to anyone, who better to have stood up there with you on the biggest day of our lives than our closest friends that were always there for us, before we had each other.
We’re biased, we know, but there’s just so many reasons why local couples and those from further afield choose to tie the knot in stunning Sussex. Whether you’re after a romantic and rustic countryside celebration, a seaside ceremony or an out of this world outfit, you’ve come to the right place…
Boasting the picturesque South Downs and miles upon miles of rolling countryside, Sussex is an ideal base for a country wedding, be it in a manor house, barn or field! We love that, thanks to good road links, the country is easily accessible, meaning you can escape the hustle and bustle of it all in minutes. Just think of how pretty your wedding photographs will be…
Oh We Do Like To Be Beside The Seaside!
From pretty, nostalgic resorts like Eastbourne and Worthing to the bright lights of quirky and cool Brighton, Sussex’s seasides really are a stunning bunch! Go for romantic photographs on the beach, a ceremony over looking the sea or for a true summer DIY wedding, how about a picnic or BBQ on the beach?
People come from far and wide for our talented wedding dress designers – Joanne Fleming, and Oh My Honey to name just a few, not forgetting our wealth of wonderful wedding dress boutiques too. However, Sussex is not just the perfect place to find the dream dress, with fabulous suit designers Gresham Blake and Hugo Morris, also been based here. And whatever you do, don’t forget the fun and fabulous Brighton-based Irregular Choice shoes for the bride and her lucky bridesmaids to add some quirkiness to that strut down the aisle.
Wedding Guest Get-Away
Rated in the top ten most visited counties in the U.K, (East) Sussex is an especially popular destination for holiday-makers and sightseers. With that in mind, having a Sussex wedding can make a memorable holiday away from home for guests, if they tag on a weekend before or after the wedding. There’s plenty of great hotels to stay at and it means wedding celebrations can continue over a few days longer too – win, win!
Spoilt For Choice Hen and Stag Dos
On a similar note, with so much to do – be it partying it up in Brighton or indulging in some pre-wedding relaxation, those who choose to have their before-the-big-day ‘do in Sussex will be spoilt for choice!
Jet Away (or Stay) After Your Big Day
In Sussex, you’re never too far away from Gatwick airport, where you can jet straight off to almost anywhere in the world… or, why not stay on the sunny south coast and have your honeymoon here? We wouldn’t blame you!
Sussex = Sunny!
Speaking of sunshine, Sussex was recently named THE sunniest place in the U.K by the Telegraph, so chances are if you’re planning an outdoor wedding, the weather will behave itself… Festival in a field anyone?
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We love hen and stag do’s here at Love Sussex Weddings – they are almost as fun as the big day itself! Not only are they great for getting guests together before the wedding, but also a celebratory way for the bride and groom-to-be to let off some of that pre-wedding steam too.
Brighton, of course is a top destination for many a stag or hen party to descend, as there’s always something exciting happening. Here’s just a few of our favourite festivals and local goings on, if you’re looking for something a bit alternative and fun to fill your Brighton hen or stag weekend (and keep you out of the pub for at least some of your weekend)!
Brighton Food and Drink Festival: 6th-7th September 2014 Who doesn’t love good food?! The Brighton and Hove Food Festival, which takes place twice a year (in September and April) on Hove Lawns is a food-lovers delight! With talks, tastings and a terrific atmosphere this two day festival is a perfect way to spend a hungry hen or stag afternoon.
Lewes Bonfire Night: 5th November 2014 For all of you tying the knot in winter, the infamous Lewes Bonfire Night celebrations are well worth a visit. The small picturesque town comes alive with fireworks, a huge bonfire and processions, as the town celebrates being the only (and longest standing) bonfire night of its kind in the U.K.
The Great Escape 14-16th May 2015 This annual event is a must for music lovers! Boasting the best upcoming solo artists and bands around, The Great Escape takes over 35 unique (and slightly suprising) of the city’s venues across two days for over 400 performances – better still these are all accessible with just one wristband, so there’s no worrying about where you’ve put your tickets. As the venues are dotted around the city centre, you could always incorporate a cheeky bar crawl into the plans too…
Brighton Festival and Brighton Fringe Festival: May 2015 The two festivals promote exciting and unusual art-based events throughout Brighton for the whole of May. From music to film, art to dance all genres are covered and there’s bound to be at least one thing your party would like to see! Cabaret at the Spiegaltent is always great fun!
Brighton Pride: August 2015 Brighton Pride is a highlight in many a Brightonian’s (and visitors) calendar. A celebration of LGBT lives, the day starts with fun and fabulous floats passing through town, from Brighton Wheel all the way to Preston Park, where the party continues, big style!
Brighton’s Big Screen: June 2015 Playing popular films such as Dirty Dancing, Bridesmaids, Jaws (and covering big sporting events too) on Brighton beach, the Big Screen (which also has it’s own bar) pops up each June for a month of FREE films, making it a great way to unwind and get the party atmosphere flowing before a night on the town!
Paddle Round The Pier: July 2015 Brighton’s charity beach festival has a jam-packed itinerary of events for the entire weekend! Swim to the pier and back, cheer on others from the side-lines or indulge in some booze and food from one of the many stalls on Hove Lawns whilst listening to music from the main stage. Entry is free but a donation to the festival’s chosen charity is welcome.
Shakedown: July 2015 Fancy going to a field-based festival for a PROPER party? Put Shakedown in your diary! Based a few miles from the city centre, this much-loved music festival is regularly frequented by the likes of disco DJs Basement Jaxx and Groove Armada. Organisers also run a FREE Shakedown Shuttle from the Old Steine to and from the festival, leaving you time to just enjoy the event and party the day away.
Love Supreme: July 2015 Just 30 minutes from Brighton, the Love Supreme jazz festival is held in the grounds of an impressive Elizabethan manor house and ties in toe-tapping tunes of the finest jazz artists with pretty and picturesque views. If you’re after a lazy and laid back picnic and Prosecco style do – this one’s for you!
Chilli Festival: September 2015 Postponed from last year, this fiery food festival plays host to some of the hottest foods, live music and not forgetting, the famous chilli eating competition in Victoria Gardens. Do you dare?
In recent years, The George in Rye, East Sussex has become a favourite wedding venue for Sussex brides and their grooms who want an elegant yet relaxed big day.
The George, a boutique townhouse located at the heart of Rye’s historical high street is just a stone’s throw from the Town Hall where couples can tie the knot before continuing their celebrations at the stunning venue, late into the night.
Boasting an original Georgian ballroom (for that all-important first dance!) and 16th century coaching inn, The George, which dates back to 1575 is unsurprisingly popular with couples wanting a sophisticated ‘do with a pretty vintage vibe.
Today our lovely Brighton based feature writer Shelley who is planning her very own Sussex wedding talks engagements, what to do next and feeling a little overwhelmed. . .
I don’t know about you but as soon as the ring was on my finger, I was thinking about my dream wedding day; the venue, the guest list and not forgetting the dress. And, if I’m being really honest I’ve found it all a little overwhelming.
With that in mind I thought I’d share some sound advice given to me by friends, family and past Love Sussex Weddings brides that helped me to find my wedding planning feet:
Whatever You Do, Do It Your Way
Some of the best weddings I’ve been to or have fallen in love with here on Love Sussex Weddings have been the ones that you can tell were planned between a bride and her groom with their personalities shining through every aspect of their wedding day. It’s your day so why not do it your way!
Talk to each other
I know this sounds silly, but so many past brides have said it and I’ve already found it useful! If in your head you’re dreaming of an elegant stately home ‘do, while your other half is imagining an intimate church ceremony with cool pub garden reception, it’s important to know this sooner rather than later, so that compromise and inspiration can be drawn from both sides.
Nowadays, it seems grooms don’t want to shy away from wedding planning and want to get fully stuck in – what does he want from a wedding day? Is there anything he’d really like or not like? I’ve been really surprised with some of the suggestions that my groom-to-be has made – I was expecting a ‘Oh, I don’t know you decide’ remark when I asked him, but instead, just by chatting ideas through we are already getting a good idea of what we hope our big day will be like.
Regardless of who you talk to or which magazines you read, everyone will tell you a different sum for a wedding budget. I think it’s important to remember that you can spend as little or as much as you want and are comfortably able to, there is no set amount you have to spend.
To get a general idea of what your wedding day might cost, there’s no harm in having a chat with a few venues and key suppliers such as caterers, photographers and bridal boutiques to get a rough figure.
Decide on a Theme
What would you like your wedding to be like? Choosing a theme, even loosely, can be a useful starting point for thinking about what you want for your wedding (I have certainly found it useful), it can help you think about what sort of venue, dress and decor you might want.
Take bright colours for example, a key look for 2015, to me this conjures up images of a summer wedding, summery food, colourful cocktails, a sassy dress and a city venue. Having a theme sort of makes everything slot into place, without much effort. There’s loads of real weddings here on Love Sussex Weddings you can look through for ideas and Pinterest is a great tool for playing with too if you’re struggling to pin down a wedding theme.
Book…But Don’t Rush
If after visiting a venue you both know it’s the one and you can afford to, book it! The same with your wedding suppliers. Just don’t feel that you have to ‘take’ the first venue/photographer/caterer you see, in fear that you need to jump on the wedding conveyor belt – this advice from my dad.